In America, we usually associate a tiara with royalty but it got me thinking. Just what are the rules of wearing a tiara if you are a member of the royal family or a member of the aristocracy?
Tiara’s were a mark of rank but were usually reserved for married ladies. Young, single ladies almost never wore them. Tiaras were commonly given as a wedding gift.
At that, those were the rules during the olden days, during the times of Downton Abbey. The only other rule back then was to make sure that the size of your tiara wasn’t bigger than someone who outranked you, especially a member of the royal family. In other words, it wouldn’t be appropriate for a daughter of an Earl to wear a tiara that was larger in size than a Duchess.
During the Victorian era, Tiara’s were worn all the time, well for events that took place in the evening. Obviously, you would wear them to things like weddings, but also they can be worn during formal dinners, and a night out at the ballet or a play.
Today though, we have gotten far more casual about the rules of wearing a tiara.
Really any formal (white tie) event in modern-day, is a time for a tiara. If the event includes an evening gown, then you could wear a tiara.
Black tie events, with a few rare exceptions, usually mean no tiara for the ladies.
You don’t have to wear a tiara if you don’t want to or down your own one. But if you want to, and I mean, who doesn’t? Then consider the event. If it’s a formal affair then you can probably get away with wearing a tiara.
And before you ask what the difference between a white tie and black-tie event is, a white tie event is something you would wear a full evening dress or formal evening dress too.
White tie is the most formal style. It’s usually reserved for state dinners, formal balls, and evening weddings. White tie events are only appropriate after 6 pm.